I am So Her! — Change

Lying in the hospital bed admiring the city view and losing all track of time with my thoughts drifting away. I could see her coming. It was the hospital nurse. My husband held my hand so tight. He stood so stoic and calm. His pain and grief stayed hidden in order to protect me from a reality that I did not see coming. He remained strong for the both of us. In that moment I felt safe. On June 19th 2023, I was diagnosed with Breast Cancer. In that very moment I felt like my life was shattered to pieces and being away from me. Everything I worked so...

It is unimaginable that my right to choose has been struck down by the United States Supreme Court! This decision will haunt the United States for generations to come and will set women back for decades from the progress we have made for equality.  My daughter and many young women have been told by the courts that equality comes with a price. What are we teaching our daugthers? That our live and choices don't matter? Unfortunately, this ruling will effect women of color and lower income households because they have less access to health care and limited financial resources. Although,...

Hey boo!Yes, I did the big chop. I was so tired of having to manage my hair everyday. You know what I mean girl, right?  I wanted to find a grown and sexy hair style to fit me. I love my new hair. I can either rock it in  some tight curls or wear it straight with a little bump. As my natural hair starts to grow, I notice how beautiful my curls are . I have finally committed myself to the natural journey. It has been about 3 months, and I absolutely love it! At first it was a little uncomfortable. Having...

After being indecisive and analyzing my options, I have finally made up my mind about "The Big Chop"! Being a mother of four, things can really get out of control...and my hair was one of them.  Nevertheless, I am not my hair but this shit feels absolutely amazing. I am so happy I moved forward with my decision. I feel so free and fearless! My hair cut is low maintenance and the style actually speaks for itself. So, if a short haircut has been something you have been contemplating. I'd say go for it! Do whatever fits you. Whether it is an...

A poem written by my older sister: Tameka I am busy. Not in a way most people would think I am busy calming my fears I busy finding my ways I am busy listening to my family I am busy getting in touch with what is real I am busy growing and learning new things I am questioning my answers I am busy being in my present life