Who really wants to admit being cheated on or even the one who actually did the cheating? I'd rather be lifting others up or chatting about something more lucrative that can line my pockets, if you catch my drift.
However, we all have that one friend who you can always call or vent to, right? Well, that's me and it's okay to be ratchet sometimes! No judgement zone here. Hell...I might feel a way myself.
Moving on.....
A friend recently asked, if I had to choose to be a mistress or a side chick which one would I pick? I meeeaann.....lol. If I had to choose, I would rather be a mistress. Only because, my definition of being a mistress is to have the same benefits as the wife except for being a secret. Therefore, the ball would always be in my court if things don't go my way. Haha!
On the other hand, my definition of a side chick is like being friends with benefits. Which means, there is a mutual understanding of knowing what time it is when that phone rings type of relationship. There is no benefit in that. I would prefer something a little more exciting.
At the end of the day, it's never okay to mislead or mistreat anyone. If you have that cheating itch, talk about it. Have that necessary conversation because no one wants to feel used. She deserves a whole lot more and so do you!
What about you? If you had to choose, which one would you rather be and why?
Until next time,
~Toodles~
I agree wholeheartedly. I’d rather just be alone